Monday, July 26, 2010

What do you think ?

Sometimes I wonder why are there so many friendship or relationship issues. I'm not talking about me, I meant in general. Although I'm also in this same situation with certain people. Haha.

But yeah as I'm so free this sem, I do lots of different stuff and at some point of boring times, I just chill and listen to awesome music and think and then zzz. Yes, I know, I'm having lazy life right now. But not for long. Will be doing something much more beneficial to the society (im know as sampah masyarakat right now). Okay back to the topic, I just want to share of what I think about this.

Just sit back and think about what you just said to a friend earlier, did you...gossip ?
I'm sure you and I did. It is a part of everyday conversation. Sad to say but true. The term gossip sounds so bad but it might not be entirely bad ones. " eh why la must she act so bitchy?! ", " harr she ask her bf to buy that branded bag for her ? chi sin! " and "wow she has been doing great! "

Do I choose who to be friends with ? Generally, I don't. But technically, yes. I love meeting new people and mix around but when it comes to closer ones, hang out ones, buddy ones.. it does matter. As for me, when I don't like someone, that means you are really a problematic ones. My friend said that just be looking at my facial expression can tell. HAHA isn't it good ? LOL.

I can't stand people ...

who is totally inconsiderate.
who is taking advantage of other people.
who is fake.
who is got to tell the whole world that he/she is damm rich and capable.show off.
who downgrade other people.
who categorizes other people.
who talks bad about other people and being batu api.
who is trying to be another person.try hard.

omg seriously. just be happy with who you are. too bad if that person don't accept with who you are, is not your lost but is theirs! DO NOT try to change yourself to fit in. But if you have bad attitudes and maybe is time for you to change. we learn from mistakes everyday.

A friend once told me " wow. this is new. you didn't jump into conclusion like how you used to"

You know, jumping into a conclusion before hearing from both sides, is bad. Trust me, is really bad. I just learn it and never do that again.

Be honest to yourself too. Honesty is the best policy.

Friends been telling me to just act like nothing happen and move one, but I just can't. I can't smile in front of that person and deep inside my heart, I damm hate that person lor. Well as time goes by, I learn to forgive but is hard to forget. So yea. nothing to share about this anymore.

As few recent outings with different group of friends, I clearly know why I don't have any serious issue with my highschool friends. They are just ... different. Probably this is why I have always love hanging out with them and also probably the main cause was, we have been friends for so long that is why we are so comfortable with each other.

I'm not saying I have problems with my uni friends.. just that after highschool, it is where we are more exposed with different group of people. =)

This is just totally random. This is not directly to anyone. Just. random.


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